Q1: Does it make sense that “don’t let your children lose at the starting line”?
A: Spending the lifetime comparing with others is the root of tragedy.
Q2: What’s the criterion for making friends?
A: The otherworldly wise,
The earthly strong,
Or optimistic ordinary people.
Q3: Shall I spend the tuition for school or traveling worldwide? Why?
A: It’s a Chinese proverb that “It’s better to travel ten thousand miles than to read ten thousand books”,
while traveling ten thousand miles without knowledge is nothing but postman.
Q4: Does it feasible to learn programming at the age of 30?
A: The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, or now.
Q5: Why do people would rather go university and find a job than dropping out for taxi driving, running a stall, etc?
A: “Son, I ask you to study hard, it’s not for the scores, but for the freedom of choosing a meaningful job with leisure time rather than just for making a living. The meaningful job brings you sense of achievement, the leisure time brings you dignity. Achievement and dignity bring you happiness.”
-By Long Yingtai, a modern writer in Taiwan, China
Q6: What opinion should be hold for inspirational books?
A: No mater how many you read, they are all just others’ life.
Q7: There are too many wonderful books and movies, we are destined never able to finish reading and watching. What opinion should be hold for this?
A: ”Don’t fear for the infinity of truth,
there is enjoyment each step forward.”
-By Hu Shi, a Chinese philosopher
Q8: What’s the value of suffering?
A: Never believe that suffering is valuable.
Nevertheless, strengthen your will for unavoidable suffering.
Q9: How did you walk out of tough time?
A: Walk more steps.
Q10: How hard should i strive to be a stronger?
A: If you’re meant to be a stronger, the answer is in your blood.
If you’re meant to be ordinary, just be the best of yourself.
Q11: What ’s the perfect love in your opinion?
A: It can be imperfect.
Q12: Is it true that the more mature, the harder to fall in love?
A: No. The more mature, the easier to distinguish if it’s true love.
Q13: The excitement fades away after half a year of in love. What should I do?
A: The excitement doesn’t mean repeating the same life with different girls, but exploring different life with your loved one.
Q14: What’s the key to an everlasting marriage?
A: Act as unmarried.
Q15: Why should we work hard?
A: The most miserable thing in life is not “i failed”, but “I should have”.
Q16: What’s the main reason for resignation?
A: Low salary, endless tasks, and far away from home;
Insignificant position, little power, and huge responsibility;
unhappy, unpromising future and no freedom.
Q17: What’s the best suggestion in saving money?
A: Remember these before spending money: i love it, it fits me, i need it now.
Q18: I’m 26 years old with 3 years of working experience, is it worthy to go aboard for 3-year education now?
A: Ordinary players choose standard setting, while advanced players choose customized setting.
Q19: What concept do you changed after living abroad for a long time?
A: It’s more about difference, not right or wrong.
Q20: Why didn’t Facebook be copied?
A: The best way to protect idea is to execute it well.
Q21: Is there a skill that can be learned in a short time but of significant help in a lifetime?
A: Praising others.
Q22: What can be done to improve the quality of life?
A: Throw things away regularly.
Q23: What is well-experienced?
A: The ability to enjoy the best and bear the worst.
Q24: What do you not believe until you prove it by yourself?
A: “Never underestimate your capability;
never overestimate your perseverance.”
Q25: Why do we sometimes envy but other times admire when someone is stronger than us?
A: For somebody with interest conflict, we envy; for others without interest conflict, we admire.
Q26: What’s low EQ?
A: Be deferential to strangers, while irritable to intimates.
Q27: How to provide suggestion without leaving imbuing and compelling feeling to others?
A: Persuade others from the perspective of benefits, not rationality.
Q28: What’s the best suggestion you ever got in life?
A: “Excessive self-focus is the root of evil.”
“Never be entangled with things not happened.”
“It’s the earliest time when you think it’s late.”
Q29: What idea enlightened your life?
A: Talent decides your upper limit, and effort decides your inferior limit.
But the majority of people not make their best efforts, let alone talent.
Q30: What do you think of the saying that “youth who say let it go is hopeless”.
A: It’s hopeless to conclude complicated life by one words.
Q31: How to refute “Be realistic, that’s the world”?
A:“Your world is what you are.”
Q32: How to make the world better?
A: Make yourself better.
Q33: Why should we do good if the good will not always be rewarded?
A: We insist on doing something not for the reward but for its rightness.
-By Václav Havel, ex-president of Czech
Q34: What is the demarcation point between science and superstition?
A: “I’m wrong.”
Q35: What’s your understanding of freedom?
A: The power to say “no”
Q36: What’s the next words after a well-known sayings that surprise you?
A: “Man is born free”
“but everywhere he is in chains. “
“One who thinks himself the master of others,
Unexpectly, is more of a slave than others.”